Found this script over at justuo that would be perfect for my RPers on my server. Got it installed everything works good until server save then POOF all playermobiles so its def a ser/deser issue everything if in my playermobile IDENTICAL to instructions and it works no problem on justUO so im thinking maybe there is some differences in the playermobile i am not seeing hoping someone here can shed some light. Thanks.
Here is the link.

http://www.playuo.org/emu/index.php?threads/marriage-system.192/#post-1381
 
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